Not seeking approval is liberating

I am not interested in being liked by everyone. I no longer mind being misunderstood, as others’ perceptions of me have nothing to do with me. I couldn’t care less about being socially approved. I am to be experienced while aligned with myself and my true values. Seeking approval will make you filter or censor your true self to adapt to whoever you seek approval from. You kill your uniqueness to fit in, even though it’s gold.

Not seeking approval is liberating because you can simply be who you want to be without fear of being canceled or not liked. You just don’t care because you rely on yourself, validate yourself, and respect your self-expression. Enjoying your own company and feeling so fulfilled made you quite selective with who you surround yourself with. The people who embrace your authentic self also share their authentic selves with you. People who have a problem with who you are are not your people. Don’t dim your light to soothe others’ insecurities. Stop babysitting their ego.

You don’t need to wait for invitations to spaces that some people label as confirmation that they are talented, that their craft is worthy of attention, that their creations are valuable, or that they made it. You can create your own space, even if it’s just you or you and a few friends. Authenticity will always win.